Son #1, whom I shall refer to as "JA" from now on, is visiting my soon-to-be ex-brother-in-law (whew! that was a hyphen night mare!) in an undisclosed location (brother-in-law, Jace, is in the military, so we'll just say his job is very 'hush-hush'.) He is having a great time visiting, wrestling with his cousins, and playing at the beach, but the main reason he was allowed to go was to get him away from the Divorce Drama that is playing out in our lives right now. At 15, he understands just enough about the Divorce, about the relationship dynamics between his dad and me, and about the circumstances surrounding our separtion to put him through the emotional wringer, but not enough to give him a secure grasp on the future of our family. Hopefully, this time away from home will help him grow as an individual, give him some peace & perspective, and enable him to face the situation with a renewed calm.
Wow! What alot of rhetoric. Bottom line: kid is freaking out, totally confused and an emotional wreck and needed a breather. End of story.
Enjoy the pics (thank you, Kara! Check out her blog: Organized Chaos.)
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